Every year, hundreds of thousands of men and women go into relationships hoping they will be happy and enduring foundations which will make it easier to meet challenges and make dreams come true. Sadly, that is not always the case.
Relationships. Why do some go wrong? What does it take to make them work?
This blog explores the notion that couples are like partners in a business relationship, each with needs that must be satisfied if the relationship is to last.
Packed with true examples, it offers methods that can be used to develop fulfilling personal relationship; well tested to the rows, lack of communication, walk-outs, guilt and trauma that usually accompany disapointments in love.
I bring to you revealing works on the subject matter giving readers a formula for-----WORKING IT OUT.
Feel free to leave your comments on this blog and may be share some experiences and thoughts----TO EVERYONE'S SUCCESS.
In a certain year more than 160,000 marriages and perhaps twice as many unmarried couples in Britain broke up. In some of these, the partners should not have been in a relationship, in others they could not manage to talk through their differences. In some cases, partners changed and could not get back into rythm. In all cases, cherished dreams failed to come true. Yet there are relationships to be held up high, couples who, literally, show there's no mountain they can't climb.
TRUE LIFE CASES BELOW:
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Sylvia was devasted. She had lost everything. Jim was the man of her dreams. They had so much in common; she did not hesitate when he asked her to move in with him. She wound up her business and sold her home. He would set her up in a new business, the future looked bright. But he called off their relationship and asked her to move out.
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Brian kept promising to leave his wife for his secretary, but never filed for divorce. He kept asking for more time, until the secretary became pregnant for him. He pleaded with her to have an abortion, He truly loved her but could not leave his wife and family. It would damage his career.
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David commited suicide at the news that his girlfriend was ending their relationship. Minutes earlier, he had shot her in the head with a shotgun.
Decision making, it seems, is the greatest hazard of being in a relationship and being in love.
TO THE ONE I LOVE ON OUR WEDDING DAY
If we can always be as close and happy as today,
yet be secure enough to grow
and change along the way------
If we can keep for us alone
our love as man and wife,
yet find the time to share our joy
with others
in our life...
If we can be as one
and walk through marriage
hand in hand,
yet still support
the goals and dreams
that each of us has planned---
If we dare to always go
our seperate ways together,
Then all the wonder of today
will stay with us forever.
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU
Next, let us go into Personal Audits in a relationship. SETTING UP